For men out there who actually don’t know how to give their women a heaven on earth experience in the bedroom, this could just be it for you. No one is to blame for this because, well guess what? There’s no class that will teach you on how to give your woman oral sex. Similarly, what works for one woman might not necessarily work for the other. This guide is meant to educate you on the 3 most effective ways of giving her that big O that she so badly desires. On the other hand, you just might not know the power of your tongue until you try it.
Your sex may not be a problem, but have you ever stopped to think for a minute if what you are doing is enough or just enough to go by? Does sex for her always just feel like a common and boring routine that she wants to get over with? Or does she always ask you for the most spontaneous sex experiences when you are together? The answers to all of this might just lie in how good you are at listening to her. Listen to her body and how she will react to every little sexual adventure you may bring to the table. Foreplay is a must for this satisfaction to arise.
Here is where clitoral stimulation comes in. Whether it’s flicking the bean or mind-blowing cunnilingus, make it worth it. Give her something she can go by a whole day and come back for more of your good loving.
For the first oral clitoral stimulation technique, take it slow.
Start out lightly while focusing on the circular motion of your tongue. Don’t apply too much pressure that will end up in her squirming in pain or disgust, but a light and feathery circulation motion on the clitoris will just do the trick. Make this movement slow, steady and rhythmic. Listen to her breathing and any moans. This is usually a sign that you are doing an incredible job. Don’t forget to take your time and once in a while kiss her thighs sensually as you bring your mouth back to her clit. Make her long for you and want you, even more, each and every time as your fingers tickle each sexual nerve in her body.
The second technique is moving your tongue slowly from side to side.
Like I said before, not everything may work for all women so chances are that the first step didn’t go too well with her. Take a breather; this might just be it for you. She might just be in need some direct clitoral stimulation to reach an orgasm which makes sense since women vary in sensitivity. Don’t forget about maintaining your steady rhythm throughout which will allow her to stay in tempo.
The final technique involves moving your tongue up and down in one long motion.
This technique is perfectly designed to hit all the nerves she has down there. Start at the top of her clitoris and lick all the way down to her labia and move back up in the same line to her clitoris. This is one of the fastest and easiest ways for her to achieve arousal and by now she will probably be about to reach her climax. Maintain a certain amount of pressure depending on how sensitive she is as you pleasure her all the way to her orgasm.
So there you go, apply any of these oral techniques that will immediately up your sex game.